Category: Stanglin Family (Page 23 of 25)

Meet Me In St. Louis, Louis!

OurHotelRiverfrontHyattHi, from St. Louis, the Gateway to the West, where the Mississippi is flooded, Obama was stranded, the Cardinals are in Philly, and the mermaids and mermen sculptures at Union Station are anatomically correct.

No blogging this week while the family and I are taking our summer vacation.

CarleyAtHardRockCafe   ValerieInsideArch WhitneyAtOldCourthouse

Please check out the blogs I have linked to from the right side of this page while we’re gone. Don’t get hooked on them. Just check them out.

Thank you, Bonny, for feeding Skittles. Thank you, Jennifer for getting our mail and watering our flowers. We’re having a ball. See y’all soon.

GoingUpTheArch

Peace,

Allan

Sixteen Rules

In studying this week for Sunday’s sermon on the value of our children and the divine ordinance to teach our children and bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, I’ve come across a list of Sixteen Rules written by Susannah Wesley over 200 years ago. Susannah Wesley was the mother of 19 children, including the great John and Charles Wesley. She made it a point to openly dedicate each of her children to God, to whom they do actually belong. And she parented all her children by these Sixteen Rules. As I review her rules, I’m struck at once by the antiquated nature of the guidelines and, at the same time, the deep, eternal truths in them. Each of the rules has a big-picture world view behind it, a lasting set of life time values within it, and a future vision of godly living ahead of it. Reflecting on these rules individually and as a whole has shown me where Carrie-Anne and I are doing pretty well with our three girls and some other areas we should probably work on.

I also can’t help but notice that over half these rules could be—should be—applied broadly and forcefully to children and adults in our churches.

1)  Eating between meals not allowed.

2)  As children they are to be in bed by eight p.m.

3)  They are required to take medicine without complaining.

4)  Subdue self-will in a child, and thus work together with God to save the child’s soul.

5)  Teach a child to pray as soon as he can speak.

6)  Require all to be still during Family Worship.

7)  Give them nothing that they cry for, and only that which they ask for politely.

8)  To prevent lying, punish no fault which is first confessed and repented of.

9)  Never allow a sinful act to go unpunished.

10) Never punish a child twice for a single offense.

11) Commend and reward good behavior.

12) Any attempt to please, even if poorly performed, should be commended.

13) Preserve property rights, even in smallest matters.

14) Strictly observe all promises.

15) Require no daughter to work before she can read well.

16) Teach children to fear the rod.

Upon further reflection, Jerry Wayne could probably stand to enforce these among most of his players in the Cowboys locker room, too.

Peace,

Allan

A Dark & Stormy Night

Price Tree Across the StreetChainsaws and chippers. The sounds of cleanup dominate our little North Tarrant County neighborhood this afternoon. The thunderstorms that raged through our area early this morning packed 80 mph winds and lots of lightning and thunder. We lost two-and-a-half fence panels, a couple dozen shingles, a flag pole, and two hours of sleep. And our DISH is apparantly off line which means we don’t have any TV. But that’s it.

Most of our neighbors in our Ember Oaks Subdivision, though, fared much worse. Trees and fences and roofs are down all over the place. On just our street, Ember Oaks Drive, and Fireside, the street that intersects ours about half a block north, I’ve counted 28 trees with major damage, 17 fences missing at least one panel, and five roofs with missing shingles.

As always, click on the pic to get the full size. These first two are of Dave’s big tree next door to the North:

Dave’s Tree Next Door Dave’s Tree Up Close 

These are from our own fence on both sides of our house.

Fence Down From Front Fence Down From Back Our Fence On North Side Of House (Almost)

These show a little of the roof damage to our house. I haven’t checked the other sides yet. Hopefully this front is all I’ll need to fix.

Our Missing Shingles   Missing Shingles  Our flagpole snapped at the bracket

These are of other trees on Ember Oaks:

 Next Door South Price Tree Across the Street South Three Houses Down

This is looking north up Ember Oaks toward Fireside:

North Up Ember Oaks 

These are from the corner of Fireside & Ember Oaks, half a block north of our house.

Corner of Fireside & Ember Oaks Fireside & Ember Oaks Trees Corner of Fireside & Ember Oaks

These are from Fireside, just around the corner:

Fireside Trees Fireside Fireside Trees

I had joked last night that the faithful few in the Oasis class at Legacy were the ones ignoring the overly-excited TV weathermen who were telling us the sky was falling. I said we all knew our houses wouldn’t be destroyed and the end wouldn’t come until well after midnight. And when the walls of our upstairs bedrooms began moving at just after 3am and we heard the cracking of the trees, I was afraid maybe I had been right. We’re very thankful to God today for keeping us safe through the storm.

“My soul finds rest in God alone;
my salvation comes from him.
He alone is my rock and my salvation;
he is my fortress, I will never be shaken.
~Psalm 62:1-2

Hopefully you and your families were delivered through the storms OK. I must hurry home now and do my best to readjust our DISH to 1) avoid the $29 service fee and the delay until Saturday afternoon for repair, and 2) to make sure I can watch the Stars’ opening round playoff game tonight against Anaheim. I can’t miss tonight’s playoff game because there may only be four or five total for Dallas. Carrie-Anne and Whitney are going to AAC tonight for the Mavericks and Jazz. Bud Hale gave us the tickets (thanks, Bud!) but C-A’s going instead of me because she’s never been to a Mavs game before. They’re going to have a blast. And I get Valerie and Carley all to myself tonight. I’m not sure yet what we’re going to do. I know it’ll have to be something fun and special. And I know it’s NOT going to be Chuck E. Cheese’s.

Peace,

Allan

March Sadness

Thank you, Georgetown.

My champion didn’t even make it through the first weekend. I still have three of my Final Four alive. But the second-seeded Hoyas choking against Davidson cost me 20 points in the Stanglin family pool. Peeps and malted chocolate Whopper eggs are soothing me somewhat. Heading in to the Sweet 16, Carrie-Anne’s actually leading the house with 45 points. My reign as Bracket Champ continues. But the throne is teetering.

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Kidd’sKillingUsWhat if Mark Cuban trades his entire kingdom for Jason Kidd and the Mavericks don’t even make the playoffs? The Mavs are 9-8 since trading for the troubled point guard. And they’re 0-8 against teams with a winning record. Since trading for Kidd, Dallas has slipped from 5th place in the Western Conference standings to 7th, just a half-game out of 8th and only two games out of 9th. That means they’re just two games away from missing the postseason.

DirkDownAnd Dirk’s injury yesterday during their third consecutive loss doesn’t help. He’s gone for at least two to three weeks. And they have a couple of games against Golden State and Denver during that stretch. Wow.

I’m not celebrating the fact that Cuban’s Mavs have fallen apart since they acquired Kidd. OK, maybe I am just a little…

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Easter photos from Sunday afternoon at Vic and Kathryn Akers’. As always, click on the pic for the full size.

CarleyCounting CarleyHunting ToughHunt ValerieCounting WhitneyHunting

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And the stone is up around the stumple on the new worship center! We really don’t know what to call that short, stocky, outcropping on top of the new building. It’s certainly not a steeple. It’s too wide and stumpy. One of our elders suggested “stumple” a few weeks back. And it’s stuck. Here are pictures of our newly stoned stumple.

Stumple StumpleStone StumpleWork

Peace,

Allan

Three-And-A-Quarter Inches

LegacyInTheSnowFriday morning following the Blizzard of ’08. I’m running late for the Annual Four Horsemen Advance with Jason, Kevin, and Dan. We’re going to Tyler this year. I’m supposed to be at Dan’s house in Forney in less than 90-minutes and I’m nowhere close to ready yet. Whitney’s mouth looks like Helter Skelter right now with all the blood and saliva and stitches and swelling. Bless her heart. It’s really horrible. But the doctors say everything went perfectly well, they were able to do everything they needed to do with her gums, and she should be just fine in about a week. Carrie-Anne’s taking her back to the doctors at 1:00 this afternoon for a checkup. Thank you so much for your prayers and your cards and your well-wishes for the Whitster this week.

 I’ll be able to get everybody caught up on everything Monday. But I did want to post a few pics this morning of our snow. I measured 3-1/4 inches in our front yard at about 4:00 yesterday afternoon. As always, click on the pics for the full size. Everybody have a great weekend.

Carley StanglinManor  Val  Steve  TwoGals

Peace,

Allan

Red Letter Weekend for the Stanglins!

C-ACarrie-Anne and I celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary yesterday. And in a lot of ways it was a typically busy Sunday. In the card I gave her yesterday morning while she was still in bed I wrote, “Happy Anniversary. I love you. Looking forward to the funeral.”

Stan’s memorial service was just one of the ministry duties that we shared together yesterday. In fact, our first “alone” time of the day didn’t come until about 7:00 last night, after we had dropped the girls off with the Byrnes and headed to Grapevine.

And I do love being alone with Carrie-Anne. Carrie-Anne

Part of what keeps me falling deeper in love with her day after day is watching her with other people. I love the way she interacts with young children. I love the way she still lights up when she talks about her bi-lingual students at the Marble Falls pre-K. I love her patience and kindness she shows to our daughters when she’s helping with homework or they’re helping with cooking dinner. I love the way she’s embraced this whole preacher’s wife thing, opening up in ways I’ve never seen before. I love the way she’s right by my side praying with sick people at the hospital, visiting a grieving family before a funeral, or just shaking hands with our brothers and sisters after an assembly. She’s so friendly and funny and warm and considerate. I’m proud of her. And I love her.

WiggedOutBut I really like being alone with her. Like most couples our age we do spend a lot of time talking about our kids and our jobs. But we also like to talk about our past together. Carrie-Anne has a fabulous memory and a wonderful way of recalling the funniest little details of our life together. And we laugh. And we sigh. And we both marvel at how God has worked in our lives to bring us together, to keep us together, and to work through us for his Kingdom.

Carrie-Anne is the most forgiving, most compassionate, most loyal person I know. And I know. I’m the Carrie-Annegrateful recepient of a whole lot of that forgiveness and love and loyalty. I’m blessed with much more than I could ever deserve in my amazing wife.

Thank you, baby.

I do. And I always will.

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Thanksgiving at Aunt Pam’s in Fort Worth. Carrie-Anne’s not asleep in this photo. She just always closes her eyes when a shutter goes off. From right to left on the couch that’s C-A, her mom, Aunt Pam, and the Whitster. The other photo is Valerie with Pam’s new little runt of a dog, Allie.

PopPop’sGirls  Val&Allie

Snow and sleet most of the afternoon. Who knew? Carley (in her tank top!) and Valerie spent a couple of hours outside with the wintry mix. Whitney wasn’t about to be pulled away from the Cowboys blowout win by anything. It could have been raining Oreos and she wouldn’t have left the TV.

CarleyFlakes CatchingSnowflakes ValFlakes

Friday was spent putting up the Christmas tree, decorating the house for the holidays, and installing the lights on the house. Sometimes we even decorate the kids. Goofy.

CarleyAsTree Done

Valerie’s my adventurous daughter who never lets me get on the roof for anything without coming along.

ValRoofShot Dad&Val

WonderfulLifeOne of our holiday traditions is that we put up the tree the day after Thanksgiving, eat a family dinner together, and then watch “It’s a Wonderful Life.” Popcorn and Dr Pepper and eggnog. Don’t knock it ’til you’ve tried it. “A man is no failure who has friends.” “To George Bailey, the richest man in town.” My favorite part of that movie is when George comes home after spending all day looking for the lost $8,000. Mary asks him how his day was and he says, “Another red letter day for the Bailey family!” And then he just totally goes off on his whole family. He yells at his daughter playing the piano. He yells at his son who wants to know how to spell something. He insults Mrs. Welch, Zu-Zu’s teacher, over the phone. But my favorite line is when he and Mary are alone in the kitchen and he looks at her and says, “You call this a happy family? Why’d we have to have all these kids?” The ‘red letter day’ quote gets thrown around at our house a lot. But that line about ‘all these kids’ is my favorite.

Peace,

Allan

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