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Tell Them Some Stories

I’ve stolen this quote from Jim Gardner’s Father’s Day sermon out at the Woodward Park Church in Fresno. It’s from a June 9 USA Today article by Oliver Thomas.

“One of the more pernicious myths in America today is that in order to be a good father, you must provide your children with a surplus of material things. For the three-fourths of us who identify ourselves as Christian or Jewish, there’s nothing biblical about this way of thinking. To the contrary, the Bible warns against an excessive devotion to material things. Fathers must compete for their children’s attention with iPods, cell phones, cable TV, and Game Boys. As a result, fathers feel tempted to sacrifice their role as dad in order to win their children’s affection.”

Yesterday in George’s class here at Legacy we talked about sharing the stories with our children, the Deuteronomy 6 principle of passing on the faith through our stories of salvation from God. We don’t tell stories anymore because we’re watching TV or surfing the web or texting on our cell phones. Good gravy, I don’t even know if we look anybody in the eye anymore, much less tell and listen to stories. We’re all glued to our personal screens, in our own little worlds, oblivious to the bigger picture of history and the universe and the linear way we’re impacted by things that happened before we arrived on the scene and how the things we do now directly bear on what happens later.

Putting two and two together is becoming increasingly more difficult as we feed on more and more bits of unrelated information in shorter and shorter bites.

It adversely affects our way of thinking, our worldview, and our relationships.

Dads, turn off the TV. Get off the computer. Take a car trip without headphones and DVD players. Tell your kids some stories. Give them a sense of what’s happened before and how it impacts them today. Give them a sense of being connected to something much bigger than themselves, something much more important than themselves. Show them how it all fits. Tell them some stories.

The Next Two Years

In addition to naming our dreams and visions for the Legacy Church of Christ at our recent elders / ministers retreat, we were each asked to share our goals for the rest of 2008 and our goals for 2009. Most of mine reflect my overall dreams and visions. They’re specific ways, or at least time-frames, for doing what I’m convinced God is calling me/us to do.

The goals are up on the wall in my study as daily reminders of what I’ve pledged to do. And, again, in an effort maybe to encourage or inspire you—and at the least to help in holding me accountable—here they are:

Goals for the rest of 2008—

To explore as a church family the multi-faceted aspects of communion and the Lord’s Supper

To make communion time the highlight and climax of our Sunday morning assemblies

to work harder to foster more relationship and trust between the elders and me

make more hospital visits and send more cards and letters to Legacy members

use more examples and illustrations in my sermons from what God is doing with our people at Legacy

plan a 24 Hours of Prayer event this summer in conjunction with the opening of our new worship center

plan a Friends Day in the fall

Goals for 2009—

plan a four-day gospel meeting at Legacy, for our community, themed around the power of the resurrection; I’d like to call it a Resurrection Revival or something like that

full integration of our Spanish-speaking and deaf brothers and sisters into our Sunday morning assemblies

plan a Tarrant County unity event—some kind of singing and/or worship assembly—for all our Christian brothers and sisters in the area

Please join me in praying about these things as God works in and through me and us together to reconcile the world back to him.

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The temporary plywood wall that’s been separating the west side of our concourse from the new worship center construction has been taken down. You can see the brand new doors leading into the worship center now from almost anywhere on this side of Pod B.

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And they’ve begun painting the inside of the worship center now.

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Will it be late July or early August?

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Speaking of painting, yesterday marked the annual Legacy Youth Group Messy Games Day. Disgusting. Much more messy than last year. Much more food and food products involved. Egg-tosses. Wrestling in jello for whipped-cream covered watermelons. Human ice-cream sundaes. Yuck. I only got close enough to take pictures but still wound up with caramel and strawberry syrup on my shoes and pants.

DillonSundae  Dillon FiveSundaes MoreSyrup  EvenMoreSyrup  Shelby  Payton Whitney

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We’re studying the fourth and final Servant Song in Isaiah this Sunday, Isaiah 52:13-53:12. The cross-event is unrepeatable. But cross-bearing is not!

Peace,

Allan

Strength From The Lord

“It is always upon human weakness and humiliation, not human strength and confidence, that God chooses to build his Kingdom; and that he can use us not merely in spite of our ordinariness and helplessness and disqualifying infirmities, but precisely because of them.”
  ~James Stewart, the Scottish preacher, not the actor

If we were to meet the apostle Paul today in a church building or at the post office or grocery store, I think we’d notice him. And I think we’d stare. Not just because he’d be wearing a robe and sandals and speaking Greek. I think we’d not be able to help staring at all his scars. All his bruises. Some of his many wounds would be red and swollen. I imagine he’d be limping. I see Paul as a crooked man, bent over and almost deformed in some places due to many broken bones that healed improperly. And I think we’d notice all those things right off the bat.

But I think we’d also immediately recognize his fire. His passion. His determination. Even his cheer. I think we’d be looking at a man broken in body, but not in spirit.

And the deal with Paul is that he rarely talks about his scars and bruises and broken bones. When he does discuss everything he’s been through, it’s because he’s being forced. And it’s never in an effort to gain sympathy. It’s never to brag on himself and his own abilities to persevere and overcome. It’s always to brag on God. We admire Paul, not because of his suffering, but because of his response to the suffering.

Paul sees his trials from the divine perspective of his God. Paul tells the church in Corinth (2 Corinthians 1:8-11) that his sufferings and persecutions aren’t unpleasant interruptions. They’re not distractions that mess up his life. They’re not unfair intrusions. Paul sees the pressure and the crises as gifts from God to show us, to teach us, to rely on the Father and not on ourselves. Through his pains Paul sees clearly that God has delivered us, God is delivering us, and God will deliver us (v.10).

In 1 Samuel 30, David finds himself in the middle of a horrible crisis. He and his men have returned to thier village in Ziklag only to find that all of their homes have been burned to the ground and all the wives and children of the town have been stolen away. David has no wife, no children, no home, no village, no land, no possessions, no wealth, no security, and no friends. In fact his friends, his own loyal men, are blaming him for the situation and are talking about killing him. In a matter of just a couple of days David’s world was turned completely upside down in a horrible way.

And in the middle of all this, Scripture says “but David found strength in the Lord his God” (30:6).

That’s where Paul finds strength, too. In the Lord his God.

And if we saw Paul today we’d admire him for his great strength in trials. We’d applaud his fierce determination through persecution. We’d praise his perseverance in suffering. And Paul would say, “No! No! No! You don’t get it! I’m not strong! I don’t have any strength! All I have are weaknesses and flaws and shortcomings! I’m not strong!”

“The one who pours his strength into me,” Paul would say, “he is strong. The one who overcomes my weaknesses, he is strong. The one who delivers me through my crises and uses the pressure to make me into the person he wants me to be, he is strong. I find my strength in the Lord my God.”

Don’t hide your weaknesses. Boast in them because that’s where God displays his strength.

Don’t shrink from the crisis. Boast in it because that’s where God does his best work.

Don’t despair under the pressure. Boast in it because that’s where God delivers.

In all your humiliations, struggles, battles, weaknesses, inadequacies, helplessness, and sickness, realize those are the things that make you effective. The Lord your God says those are actually the things that make you great. Because it’s in those things that God gives you his strength.

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LegacyToTheWorldIt’s official! The Legacy Church of Christ is now the sponsoring congregation for Cory & Emily Mullins, missionaries to Australia, and David and Olivia Nelson, missionaries to Eastern Europe. The Mullins and Nelsons will move to our area, place their membership with our church family, and work with us through the summer before they begin their six-year foreign missions commitments in the fall.

As their new home church, we’re providing their housing during this interim three or four month summer period. We already have the two houses. But we need furniture and other household goods. If you can donate or lend any beds, chairs, tables—any kind of furniture—we need it. Lent items will be returned in the fall while donated items will go to Legacy Give Away Day.

It’s exciting to partner with two missionary families in this way. By the time they leave for their destinations in the fall, they’ll belong to us. We’ll be sending out four of our own. I think we’ll take much more ownership and pride and feel much more responsibility and connection to the foreign missions work of our congregation when we already know and love the people we send.

Cory and Emily Mullins will be moving here in the middle of next week. David and Olivia Nelson will be here at the end of June. Please keep those two young couples in your prayers over the coming days and weeks.

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MurphyGoesDeepMichael Young’s team record 23-game hitting streak ended last night with an 0-5 with a walk and a run scored. But David Murphy hit a grand slam in a seven-run seventh inning for the Rangers to help Texas come from down 5-1 again to beat the Royals. This puts the Rangers over .500 for the third time this season and pulls them to within two games of Oakland for second place in the West.

But while the Rangers are first in the Majors in runs scored, at just over 5-1/2 runs per game, and team batting average (.286) they’re dead last in the most important fundamental areas of the game. Texas gives up more runs than any other team in baseball. They’ve committed more errors than any other team. And no group of starting pitchers in baseball have issued more walks or compiled a higher ERA than those in Arlington.

They can get away with some of those mistakes and shortcomings in Kansas City. But certainly not in California or New York or Boston or Detroit or Tampa Bay.

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I’ll get to those goals for 2008 and 2009 tomorrow.

Peace,

Allan

Dreamers Dream Dreams

Christ-Centered ChurchWe were asked a couple of months ago, in preparation for the elders/ministers retreat at Glen Rose, to write down our dreams for the Legacy Church of Christ. There were no time frames attached to the request. They could be dreams we have for the congregation in the coming months or visions of what we’d hope to see 20 years from now.

Toward the end of our time together, we shared those dreams with each other. We listened as everyone poured out their hearts and wishes and passions and hopes for the Legacy body. We prayed together that our God would use us for his purposes, to minister to his people in his Kingdom, as he wishes.

I was inspired by the commonality in our individual visions.

Of course, the details differed and the emphasis changed from person to person as we went around the room. One elder would speak of increased membership and a bigger staff. Another would bring up an idea to enhance outreach to the hispanic community or the Lifeline Chaplaincy program or our marriages and kids. Someone wants us to establish a local “Made In The Streets” program here in our area like the one Charles Coulston runs in Kenya. One spoke passionately about handing the “nuts and bolts of running the plant” over to the deacons to allow the elders to focus solely on the Scriptural teaching and praying roles for which they signed up. A couple of elders even tied their dreams to Legacy Small Groups Church and increased participation there.

And while different men and different personalities shared many different things, the overarching themes all connected. Each and all of the Legacy elders and ministers are determined that we become a “city on a hill,” a true force for God in our North Tarrant County communities. All of us want to be more mission-minded and mission-active, reaching out to heal both body and soul here locally and around the world. We’re all committed to faithful marriages and families in our congregation, spiritual growth in our individual and congregational relationships with Christ Jesus, and in more selfless service to one another.

I was never more proud to belong to Legacy than I was that day in Glen Rose.

Naturally, we acknowledged that it was one thing to sit around a big conference table and talk about these ideas and ideals and quite another to actually implement them in practical ways in our Body life. But we vowed to try. And we promised to hold each other accountable to the things we had discussed.

I came back and posted my own dreams and visions for Legacy on the wall above my desk in my study. I want to be continually reminded of my goals and the things I want to equip and inspire our brothers and sisters to be and do.

So, as I look at them and read them on my wall every single day, I think maybe you could be encouraged or inspired by seeing them, too. At the very least, it’ll help you keep me accountable to the things I feel our God is calling me to do and the ways he’s calling me to lead. I’ll my specific goals for the rest of 2008 and my goals for 2009 with you tomorrow.

Here they are, my big-picture dreams for the Legacy Church of Christ:

~to adopt the Ezekiel 34 vision as a motivation for everything we do in the name of God; to search for the lost, to bind up the injured, and to strengthen the weak.

~to be the leader within the Churches of Christ in the Kingdom of God; to provide leadership, ministry, and spiritual formation direction for other churches; that we would do things in a way that would inspire other Christians and other churches; that others outside our immediate fellowship would follow us as we follow Christ.

~100% Small Groups participation; that we would all serve and grow and minister and evangelize, with each other in each other’s homes, therefore becoming more like Christ.

~become a body that reflects the message of the Gospel by uniting and bringing together those from all color, economic, social, career, and ethnic backgrounds; that our Spanish-speakers and our deaf members would be integrated, not separated.

~flex our autonomy; be truly non-denominational; be guided by Christ Jesus and his Word, not outside forces.

~be a center for Christian unity events such as worship assemblies and lectureships and seminars for our brotherhood and beyond.

There they are. Keep me honest.

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SharonHappy Birthday today to my little sister, Sharon. Smash your sandwich, miss an important turn in downtown Dallas, and have an asthma attack to help her celebrate. I love you, Shassher!

Peace,

Allan

A To Z

I got tagged again by one James Lawrence Gardner. So, here we go: my life from A to Z.

A. Attached or Single? Attached Attached

B. Best Friend? Carrie-Anne Stanglin, 19 years BestFriend

C. Cake or Pie? Pie, banana cream or coconut

D. Day of Choice? Sunday, the day Jesus came out of the tomb and the day his followers come together to celebrate

E. Essential Item? The 30-seconds forward button on the DVR remote, next to air-conditioning, the second greatest invention in the history of mankind

F. Flavor of Ice-Cream? Blue Bell Cookies and Cream IceCream

G. Gummy Bears or Worms? Neither. I think it’s a texture thing. Hometown

H. Hometown? Dallas, Texas

I. Indulgences? Whoppers and Lay’s Kettle Cooked Jalapeno Chips, my only vices Indulgence

J. January or July? July Kids

K. Kids? Whitney, 15; Valerie, 11; Carley, 8

L. Last Movie I Saw In A Theater? Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull IndyJones

M. Middle Name? Wayne

N. Number of Siblings? Two sisters, Rhonda and Sharon; one brother, Keith

O. Oranges or Apples? Oranges

P. Phobia or Fear? Singing “One Day More” in our VBS musical

Q. Quote? Prayer does not prepare us for greater works; prayer IS the greater work ~ E. M. Bounds Quote

R. Reason to Smile? Almost every interaction with my kids ReasonToSmile

S. Season? Football FavoriteSeason

T. Tag Four More? David Byrnes, Jennifer Green, Jill W, Jason Skelton

U. Unknown Fact About Me? My football number in Junior High was “42.” I requested “41” to be like Charlie Waters, but they didn’t have it. So I wound up with “42” CharlieWaters

V. Vegetarian or Oppressor of Animals? Oppressor

W. Worst Habit? All of my time management issues

X. X-Rays or Ultra-Sounds? I’m not sure what that means; X-rays, I guess

Y. Your Favorite Food? Buffalo Chicken Strips at Cheddar’s

Z. Zodiac? Scorpio

One Church, One Assembly

We announced to the Legacy congregation yesterday our intentions to go from two Sunday morning assemblies to one single weekly assembly once we move into the new worship center in late July / early August. For the Pipeline-Legacy Church of Christ, it’ll be the first time in over 18 years that the entire church family will come together on Sunday mornings to worship God and encourage each other.

It’ll be the first time:

that the whole church family will regularly worship together in the same room at the same time.
the whole church participates in the baptisms
the whole church is introduced to new members
the whole church participates in baby blessings / dedications
the whole church participates in special events such as Senior Sunday and missionary send-offs

I’m excited to be able to regularly participate in a thousand-member choir, joining with so many brothers and sisters in raising our voices and our hearts to God in song. I’m looking forward to the energy and the excitement and the enthusiasm of the larger crowd. I’m glad for the lowered utility costs, the uniform start times, and the increased flexibility in planning special events.

But mostly, I’m looking forward to an abundance of opportunities to sacrifice and share and learn from one another.

Right now, we are two different churches. To ignore that fact is to ignore the truth. Our 8:30 assembly is much different in style and dynamic and approach than our 10:45 service. We sing the same songs and do things in the same order for each service. But they’re different. Very different. Sometimes the clock will determine that we leave out a song or two during first service. Different people will pray differently, read Scripture differently, approach communion differently, and even react to the sermon differently. Not only that but, especially since we meet in 37 homes now on Sunday nights in Legacy Small Groups Church, there are huge groups of people who don’t ever meet or converse or interact in any way with their own brothers and sisters who attend the other assembly. We never see each other. As a result of all those things, we really are two different churches.

The first-service people could learn a whole lot by spending more time with the second-service people.

And the second-service people could learn a whole lot by spending more time with the first-service people.

If we were to stay with two separate assemblies, we’d each be able to stay completely comfortable. No change. No sacrifice. No bending. No thinking about others.

Now we’ll all, every one of us, have to make some changes and have to sacrifice a little to make this happen. Some of us, as was mentioned yesterday, will have to wake up a half hour earlier. Some of us will have to get used to not being the very first ones in line at Luby’s. The good news is we all will have to put the needs of others ahead of our own. We’ll each have to consider others better than ourselves. We’ll have to share a pew. We’ll have to get re-acquainted. It’s a win-win situation for growing spiritually with each other as a family.

And when our Lord blesses us with more baptisms and more families and more people and we’re forced to move back to two services, it’ll be that much more wonderful. Whether it’s in six-months or six-years, we’ll do so with an increased unity and a renewed sense of community and family within our body of believers at Legacy. And we’ll look back fondly on whatever period of time we met in one single assembly, glad for the experiences, happy for the memories, and more selfless and sacrificial servants because of it.

Here are the very latest pictures of the inside of the worship center. As always, click on the pic to get the full size.

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The Legacy Quilters met for the first official time this morning in their area of the brand new Youth & Benevolence Center. When Kent wasn’t harassing them about no-parking lanes and I wasn’t bugging them to pose for pictures, they actually got a lot of work done today.

QuiltingLadiesHardAtWork   QuiltingTeam

Peace,

Allan

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