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Stop Saying “Salvation Issue”

Watch this video. It’s our twin grandsons, Elliott and Samuel, two Thursdays ago, “meeting” each other for the very first time. I promise it will be the best 25-seconds of your day.

Twins Talking

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I love listening to Cowboys fans after Dallas beats a really bad team. All they need to do is go on a run. It’s finally coming together. This is the catalyst. The Cowboys got their fourth win the Monday before Thanksgiving week–seems kinda late. The four wins have come against the Raiders (2-8), the Jets (2-8), the Giants (2-9), and Washington (3-8). Monday was the only game all year Dallas held an opponent to under 20 points. Next up, Dallas plays the Eagles, Chiefs, Lions, Vikings, and Chargers. In that order. Yeah, they’re about to go on a run all right.

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Today’s post is a bit of an aside in our conversation this week about Christian unity and accepting our brothers and sisters in Christ and refusing to judge other Christians or churches according to beliefs or practices that may differ from mine or yours. This is a suggestion. I believe this is a good idea for all of us. It’s at least something to consider.

Stop saying “salvation issue.”

Most Christians I know agree that we should not divide over “disputable matters” or “matters of opinion.” The problem, as we discussed here yesterday, comes when people believe a disputable matter is actually a matter of doctrine or faith. Many Christians I know call it a “salvation issue.”

When we start talking about “salvation issues,” we rank things in order of importance to God and according to what’s going to save us and what’s going to condemn us. We talk about baptism and church and communion and worship. But we don’t talk about helping the poor or loving our enemies or forgiving others, which the Bible says are actually the more important matters. Jesus calls those things the weightier matters. So, at best, we have a misunderstanding of the things that are most important to God or, at worst, we’re really only concerned with what’s important to us.

If we insist on using the term, I would suggest that all things are “salvation issues.” Everything is a “salvation issue.” Whether a church has a kitchen or not is a “salvation issue,” not because the kitchen is right or wrong, but because of how you treat people who feel differently about it than you do.

Give me a break. You people who don’t have kitchens in your churches. Grow up. You’re so legalistic and patternistic. You’re like the Pharisees. You’re more worried about the things of man than the things of God. Big picture, man. When are y’all going to get serious about the Kingdom of God?

You people who have kitchens in your churches. I guess you’ll do anything. You see any church kitchens in the Bible? I guess the Bible doesn’t mean as much to you as it does to me. You let the culture dictate everything in your church? When are y’all going to get serious about the Scriptures?

See how kitchens is a “salvation issue?” Not the kitchen itself, but your heart. Your attitude.

We won’t fellowship a church because they sing different songs or pray different prayers than we do or we won’t accept a group of Christians because they understand baptism differently than we do, but we’re okay with lying to our customers or cheating on our spouse or ignoring the poor. We should stop saying “salvation issue” because we don’t do a good job with it. We use that term to categorize what issues are important or not important to us based on our own preferences and opinions. The “salvation issue” is your attitude when you and another Christian disagree on anything.

“The Kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit, because anyone who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God.” ~Romans 14:17

Romans 14-15 is calling for unity in spirit, not unity in opinion, not unity in practice, not even unity in belief. Unity in spirit so that “with one heart and mouth” we may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Peace,
Allan

Micah 6: Three Things

The St. Louis / Arizona Cardinals have played a total of 14 road games on Monday Night Football. The franchise is 4-10 all time in those games. All four wins have come against the Cowboys. The Cardinals always beat the Cowboys on Monday night. Even in Jerry Maguire, the Cardinals beat the Cowboys on Monday Night Football. Meanwhile, the Cowboys are the first team in NFL history to average more than 30 points per game in the first nine games of a season and still get outscored. I don’t think a Jets tackle and a 29-year-old Bengals linebacker are going to help this historically bad defense.

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“He has showed you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you?
To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” ~Micah 6:8

 

I wrote about the context of this well-known passage in yesterday’s post. God has formally announced that Israel has broken the covenant by not taking care of their neighbors. By ignoring the poor. By exploiting the outsiders. By getting rich off the misfortunes of others. And Israel reacts by asking questions about their worship. Maybe we’re not sacrificing the right animals in the right ways. Maybe we need to worship more. Or better. And the Lord answers by reminding his people that none of that has ever mattered to him. What matters are these three things:

Act Justly – If you’re a covenant partner with God, you have to take care of everybody in the community. That’s justice. Helping the poor, protecting the immigrants, taking in the orphans, feeding the widows, speaking up for all the people whose voices don’t get heard, taking care of all the people in society who can’t take care of themselves–just like God takes care of me when I am completely unable to take care of myself.

Love Mercy – The definition of mercy is not getting what you really deserve or not giving to someone what they truly deserve. And we do love mercy. When it’s shown to us. But God tells us to love mercy for everybody. Don’t just act in a merciful way from time to time, love mercy consistently. Love mercy as a strategy, as a way of living, as a way of being and doing. Love mercy not only when it’s shown to you, but as you show it to others. Love mercy as your second-nature response, as your Holy Spirit instinct. Love it as a quality of God’s character he is forming in you.

Walk Humbly with Your God – Don’t carelessly or presumptiously do things your own way. Pay attention to God’s will. Put your will in a secondary position to his. Know your place next to God and walk with him–not against him, not in front of him–walk with God’s vision, walk with God’s character, walk with God’s priorities. God has brought you life-changing justice and has shown you amazing mercy because that’s how he treats everybody. Now, you walk with him and join him in doing those same things with everybody where you live.

Act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with your God.

Peace,
Allan

Are You Being a Neighbor?

Tony Romo played ten years as quarterback for the Dallas Cowboys. Dak Prescott is in his tenth season. Romo’s record as a starter was 78-49. Today, Dak’s record is 78-49-1. Dak’s career passer rating is 98.3, while Romo’s is 97.1. They each have two Wild Card playoff victories and nothing more. The past ten years have been exactly like the ten years before that. Exactly. And it’s not either one of those quarterbacks’ fault.

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Jesus and the Jewish lawyer are debating God’s great command. The expert in the Scriptures tells Jesus the greatest command is “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind and love your neighbor as yourself” (Luke 10:27). Jesus tells him he has answered correctly. The Greek word is orthos, as in orthodox. You have not only given the correct answer, Jesus is saying, you have given the only answer! Do this and you will live.

“And who is my neighbor?”

See, obeying this commandment is either going to be easy or hard depending on who my neighbor is. I’m either going to do this or not, depending on who we’re talking about. So, let’s define the terms. Who is my neighbor?

Luke tells us he’s wanting to justify himself. This biblical scholar wants to limit the scope of neighbor so he can say in front of this crowd following Jesus, “I’m doing it. I’m obeying that command.”

This religious leader is trying to create a distinction. The very question he asks suggests that some people are neighbors and some are not, so we’re required by God to love some people, but not all people. The question implies that God’s people are only called to love God’s people, and that we get to decide who God’s people are. The guy is saying some people are neighbors and some people are not neighbors based on geography or race or language or culture or skin color or citizenship status or socio-economic factors or something–some people are non-neighbors and God’s great command to love does not apply to them.

That’s what the expert in the Scriptures is saying. That’s what Jesus is responding to when he tells his story.

A man has been robbed. He has been attacked, stripped, beaten, and left for dead. A priest walks up and “saw” this victim, but he “passed” on the other side of the road and did nothing. A Levite happens up and also “saw” this man and also “passed” on the other side. He did nothing. Two religious leaders who’ve known and taught the command to love God and love neighbor for as long as they can remember–they “saw” and “passed.”

Then a Samaritan walks up and “saw” and “went” to the man. These verbs are important. Jesus says the Samaritan “saw” the man and he “went” to the man. He took care of the man’s wounds, he took the man to an inn, he paid for the man’s medical care, and promised to return and repay whatever was necessary.

Then, Jesus says, “Now, you define neighbor for me. Who’s the neighbor?”

Well, obviously, the one who showed mercy and acted in compassion and love.

And our Lord looks this expert right in the eye and gives him two more verbs: “Go and do likewise.”

Jesus is making his point crystal clear: Instead of worrying if someone’s my neighbor or not, Jesus says make sure you’re a neighbor!

Our job is never to evaluate the worthiness of others or to judge people as to whether they deserve compassion and love. Our job as children of God and followers of Christ is to demonstrate compassion and love It’s too make sure I’m being a neighbor and you’re being a neighbor to every person you see every day.

No more conversations or debates. No more questions and answers. No more religious loopholes, religious line-drawing, or religious double-talk. No more using God or the Word of God as a way to avoid or dismiss the very real hurting men and women we see all around us.

When we understand the story, we understand that something big is going on and I’m told I can get in on it. Actually, I’m told, “Go! Get in on it!”

Peace,
Allan

Buckling

It’s funny that the Cowboys stood their ground during Micah Parsons’ revenge game but couldn’t handle the revenge game for Rico Dowdle.

After telling several former Cowboys teammates last week that he was going to run angry and violently, after warning the Cowboys they had “better buckle up,” and after his grandstanding cautions went public, Rico went off yesterday for 183 yards rushing, 56 more yards receiving, and a touchdown in Carolina’s victory over Jerry’s team. It seems that if an opponent makes those kinds of statements, you do everything in your power to keep it from happening. You let Bryce Young throw for 500 yards and five touchdowns before you let Dowdle make good on his claims. That’s what must be so terrifying for Cowboys fans: Rico called his shot and delivered. Easily. Rico knows how bad the Cowboys defense is, called it out, and then ran around, over, and through it in dominating fashion.

The Cowboys defense is digressing. And that’s saying something. Michael Irvin posted yesterday, “I’ve never seen an NFL defense with so many people running wide open!” The six quarterbacks who have played against Dallas this year are averaging 287 yards per game with a total of 15 TDs.

Rico said after the game that the Cowboys “were not buckled up.” No, sir. They are buckling.

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I’ve been getting about one text per week for the past two months from friends with no ties to Dallas Christian High School sending me screen shots of this Facebook post, asking me if I played on that 1985 football team. That team won the TAPPS State Championship, the first in school history, and the first of three straight state titles. This post / meme / graphic / whatever is evidently making the rounds as members of that team celebrate the 40th anniversary of their historic achievement. And as my friends see it, they shoot me a text. “Did you play on that team?” “Are you in this picture?”

No! I am not in that picture and I did not play on that football team!

I was the class of ’85, which means I graduated in the spring of 1985. That football team won the state championship in the fall of 1985, which means they won three straight championships as soon as I graduated. We lost in the state championship game my sophomore year, got bounced in the second round of both my junior and senior seasons, and then the boys behind us sealed the deal by earning those huge gold footballs over the next three straight campaigns.

They honored that 1985 team at last Friday’s game at DC, gathering up mostly the seniors, it seems, for a nice tribute at halftime. I did play with all the guys in this picture, all of them during the two years before their title, some of them in junior high and JV. More than that, in that little private school, I did life with every one of them, and I remember them fondly. Randy Hill’s outsized personality, his dead-on impersonations of Coach Richmond, and his ability to always make us laugh. Jeff “Low Budget” Majors’ loyalty and friendship and understated compassion and care for others. Mark Cawyer’s leadership and his awesome tenor singing voice. Kyle Douthit’s unmistakable good-natured grumpiness. Robbie Beene’s squirrely penchant for pranks. And our beloved Coach T (“Settle down, little bodies”), who is still driving the team bus today.

Congratulations to the 1985 Dallas Christian Chargers on the 40th anniversary of our school’s first ever state championship.

“Skitta Bop.”
Allan

Ep. 8: I Like the Pain

“I’ve had people say that, ‘Jerry, you subject yourself to so much criticism; you need a buffer.’ I don’t like it like that. I like the pain.” ~Jerry Wayne on why he won’t hire a real General Manager to run the Cowboys

I knew it was contrived. I knew the whole thing was mostly scripted. I knew Netflix paid Jerry Wayne $50 million two years ago for the rights and the access to produce this eight part documentary with the caveat that the show’s final episode would feature Jerry and Jimmy Johnson burying the hatchet on their 30-year feud and Jimmy finally being inducted into the Cowboys Ring of Honor. They were both mic’d up and the Netflix cameras were rolling when Jerry and Jimmy had that staged conversation in the owners box five months later. I know the only reason Jerry finally did the right thing was because Netflix paid him to do it. I know it was for the show, for a dramatic moment in Jerry’s self-proclaimed “24-hour soap opera.”

And I still cried when it happened.

The finale of “America’s Team: The Gambler and his Cowboys” was perfectly produced, just like each one of the previous seven episodes, to communicate to everyone watching that Jerry and Jimmy together created the perfect team at the perfect time and, because of Jerry’s continued malpractice, it will never happen in Dallas again. The episode revolves around Jimmy’s long overdue Ring of Honor induction–it’s emotional and tear-jerky and real. But it ends with that same hopeless feeling, that same dread. The Super Bowl days have been over a long, long time in Big D. Likely never to return.

Netflix follows old footage of Jimmy and Jerry saying mean things about each other with 2023 film of both men expressing regret about the state of their relationship. Remorse over some of the horrible things they said about each other. Reflection on what they did together. Admiration for each other’s talents. Jerry says, “I should have hung my hat on the fact that I knew that Jimmy Johnson wasn’t perfect and he knew I was one of the most imperfect people he’d ever been around.” Jimmy says, “It wasn’t just Jerry; we both screwed it up.” And then they cut to that December night in 2023 when Jerry put Jimmy in the Ring.

Johnson’s speech was energetic and gracious, kind and intense. He was surrounded on the field by some of the greatest Cowboys legends of all time, men like Roger Staubach, Bob Lilly, Mel Renfro, Drew Pearson, and Cliff Harris. But, more importantly, his own players were on the field with him: Darren Woodson, Charles Haley, Larry Allen, Troy, Michael, Emmitt. There’s something really special about the bond between a coach and his players, something unexplainable, especially a group like this that had worked so hard together to transform a loser into a three-time Super Bowl champion. Jimmy thanked everybody, including Jerry. He thanked the millions of Cowboys fans and the millions of fans who hate the Cowboys. He was so happy. He was so grateful. He was so satisfied. The vibe was over-the-top. Everybody was smiling, laughing, giggling.

Then Jimmy said, “I’ve got just one more thing to say!” And he milked it. Man, he milked it. With a massive ear-to-ear grin, he milked the whole thing, looking around at each of the players on the field, making direct eye contact with each of the triplets, moving closer to those three so that he was directly in front of them when he finally hollered out, “How ’bout them Cowboys!” and fell into the arms of Troy, Michael, and Emmitt.

And I cried. Man, they did a great job with that.

It’s a beautiful storybook ending to the docuseries. Netflix wrote it and produced it perfectly. Nice job. The problem is that the story’s not over. The Cowboys still play games every year and Jerry Jones is still the owner, president, and general manager.

There are a couple of quotes from this final episode that shine a bright light on the never-ending issue. The first one is from a conversation Jerry is having with Rams president Kevin Demoff at the beginning of a joint Cowboys-Rams training camp practice two summers ago. Jerry and his son, Steven, were recounting what they had just said in a news conference earlier that day, that they were tired of winning the regular season, that they wanted to win in the playoffs, they wanted to win Super Bowls. Then Jerry said to Demoff, “I don’t have the %#@!! to put it all out there the way y’all did on that quarterback! I won’t do that!” Jerry was referring to Demoff’s trade for Matthew Stafford and the Rams subsequent Super Bowl championship. No, Jerry, we know you won’t. He fancies himself a gambler. But he’s really not.

In another scene from this episode, Jerry tells the interviewer there is no limit to the amount of money he would spend to win a Super Bowl. “Put any amount on the check,” he says, “and I’ll sign it to win a Super Bowl. Whatever that number is, I’ll sign it. There goes the inheritance to the kids.”

We hear this line quite often from Jerry. He’s telling us that he’s doing everything he knows how to do to win a championship, that there’s nothing he wouldn’t give up to return the Cowboys to those Super Bowl days. But, he’s lying. I think you could promise Jerry a Super Bowl win for his Cowboys if he agreed to step back from the spotlight and he wouldn’t do it. Jerry, you’ll win the Super Bowl, guaranteed. But you have to give up your TV and radio shows, you can’t appear in any commercials, you can’t do press conferences, or stand on the sidelines or hang out in the locker room. If you do that for one year, your team wins the Super Bowl. Will you make that deal, Jerry?

No way. You and I both know he wouldn’t do it.

The final scene of the final episode is Jerry at that big fake desk with that big fake backdrop looking right into the camera and saying, “It’s impossible for me to think about doing something different. I’ll probably continue right on out ’til the end.”

Yeah, it’s impossible for any of us to imagine anything different. You’ve killed the whole thing, Jerry Wayne. The standard has been irreversibly lowered. The expectations are forever dulled. Yes, the Cowboys are all yours, Jerry, and you can have them. Congratulations on another chapter in your “soap opera that never gets canceled.”

Fly Eagles Fly
Allan

Ep. 7: The Number of Years

“After we won that third Super Bowl, it would never have occurred to me that I wouldn’t get another one in the number of years that have passed by.” ~Jerry Wayne

The number is 29. It’s been 29 years since the Cowboys won a Super Bowl. Shoot, it’s been 29 years since the Cowboys so much as won a divisional playoff game.

Episode 7 of the Netflix docuseries, “America’s Team: The Gambler and his Cowboys,” marks the official end of the dynasty. And, I would suggest, the end of the Dallas Cowboys as anybody 40 years old or older knew them.

The episode opens with Channel 5’s Marty Griffin’s hidden-camera footage of Michael Irvin buying crack cocaine. I still don’t know how he pulled that off and I’m not sure anything like that could ever happen again. It was so shocking at the time to see and hear Michael on video buying cocaine.  And then we move to the drug possession arrest of Irvin and backup tight end Alfredo Roberts and two dancers at that Residence Inn in Irving on March 5, 1996. Netflix interviewed the judge and the assistant District Attorney in the case, and it’s fascinating. The assistant D.A. recalls he couldn’t believe how many strippers he interviewed for the case. They both say the evidence against Michael was “overwhelming.” Irvin was charged with two counts of felony drug possession and faced up to 20-years in prison. To remind the prosecutor exactly who he was, Irvin showed up for the first day of the trial wearing a full length mink coat and sunglasses. Classy. One of the strippers claimed the cocaine was hers, to protect Michael, while another stripper testified against Irvin and spilled the tea on everything. A reporter covering the trial described the witness as “a topless dancer with seemingly bottomless allegations.” Good line. On the second day, the FBI charged in and cleared the courtroom because of a death threat against Michael. One of the stripper’s boyfriends, a City of Dallas police officer who claimed the dancer was his common law wife, was arrested and charged with putting a hit out on Irvin. Seriously. There were also allegations of strip searches and witness tampering. Troy Aikman showed up to offer his support. O.J.’s trial the year before seemed low-key compared to this three-ring circus.

In a shocking move that baffled the judge and the assistant D.A., Irvin’s attorneys worked out a plea bargain with the prosecutor. Michael pled “no contest” and received probation and a $10,000 fine. The assumption is that someone got to the D.A. It seems like the assistant D.A. has still not gotten over it. The harshest penalty was handed down by the NFL: a five game suspension to begin the 1996 season.

Netflix spends a full 25-minutes documenting the details of the sensational trial and all the gory particulars of the Playmaker’s off-the-field misbehavior: drugs, booze, sex parties, strippers, the “White House,” etc., Skip Bayless claims “the whole culture was rotten to its core.” Andrea Kramer, who covered it every day for ESPN, says the Dallas Cowboys were never the same after Irvin’s trial. “It’s the seminal moment,” she says, “when it started to collapse.”

Boy, did it.

On one hand, the Cowboys were losing good players and coaches to free agency and not replacing them. In the three seasons after Jimmy left, Jerry and Barry lost 31 players to free agency and signed only seven. That’s not going to cut it. The first four post-Jimmy drafts netted a total of one Pro Bowler. Disaster. Troy could tell the owner and the coach didn’t know what they were doing. A still agitated Aikman says, “Jerry was learning the business on my time.”

The incompetence of the front office to evaluate talent and maintain a championship-caliber team was a major problem (still is). But the off-the-field stuff became absolutely ridiculous. There were league drug suspensions for Leon Lett, Shante Carver, and Clayton Holmes; DUI arrests for Cory Fleming (2) and Erik Williams; Deion got arrested for trespassing while fishing on private property. We were seeing a new Dallas Cowboy mugshot every other day!

This was one of the more glaring differences between Jimmy Johnson and Barry. One can’t imagine Jimmy putting up with all the off-the-field incidents and the distractions they caused. Barry? He never acted like he cared. Pat Summerall quoted Barry as telling him, “I don’t want to know what’s going on.” Barry tells the Netflix crew, “I didn’t pay any attention to it. We had a job to do and, whoever was at practice that day, we’d go out and work and get ready to play the team we gotta play. You think they’d listen to a coach telling them, ‘Hey, don’t do that anymore?’ Nonsense!”

When the Netflix interviewer asks Barry the obvious question, “Did these kinds of things happen when Jimmy was the coach?” Barry responded incredulously. “Are you saying that because I was the head coach this happened? You ain’t gonna put this on me, that it was my fault all this happened, because it isn’t.”

Then then the very next scene is a television newscast reporting that Cowboys coach Barry Switzer has been arrested for having a loaded gun in his carry-on bag at the airport.

Episode 7 chronicles the end of the Dallas Cowboys.

Remember when Irvin stabbed rookie lineman Everett McIver at training camp in 1998? Several players were in line to get haircuts inside a Midwestern State University dorm room, when Irvin walked in and, citing veteran privilege, jumped to the front of the line. McIver took issue and Michael grabbed a pair of scissors and stabbed him in the neck. McIver almost died. And nobody on the Cowboys talked. Not Jerry. Not new coach Chan Gailey. Not any of the players. They called it an accident, horseplay, fooling around. Irvin avoided prison time only because everybody kept their mouths shut. And he knows it. Speaking of McIver, Michael says, “Had he not handled it the way he handled it, I was definitely going to jail.” Netflix did not report how much money McIver was paid for his silence.

The episode covers Irvin’s last game in October 1999 in which he suffered a neck injury that revealed a stenosis in his spine that ended his career. It’s interesting that Michael says if Jimmy and Norv were still coaching, he would have come back. But not for Chan Gailey.

They document the last straw that forced Aikman to walk away in the middle of the 2000 season. It wasn’t so much the concussions he was suffering because the team around him was so bad, it was more that he knew there was no hope. After Washington’s LaVar Arrington knocked Aikman out on that October afternoon, giving him his ninth career concussion, his fourth in 14 months, Aikman says he was mentally and physically exhausted. “There just wasn’t a light at the end of the tunnel,” he remembers. “There was no question who was in charge and I didn’t see anything that was being done that offered any hope.”

Emmitt Smith held on a little longer, surpassing Walter Payton in a 2002 game against the Seahawks to become the NFL’s all-time leading rusher. I was there at Texas Stadium that day to witness history. Emmitt was 92 yards away from Payton’s 16,726; he needed 93 yards to pass him. The Cowboys’ next two games were on the road; the Cowboys wanted him to break the record at home. So did Emmitt. And he did. It was the only time I’ve ever seen a press box full of announcers and reporters give anybody a standing ovation. It was beautiful. They stopped the game to give Emmitt the ball and to unveil a banner from the rafters at Texas Stadium. Payton’s family was there for the celebration and speeches afterward. The networks all offered extensive coverage of what was a national event. The Seahawks won the game and the Cowboys dropped to 3-5 on what would be a 5-11 season, the last of Dave Campo’s three straight 5-11 seasons. I remember interviewing Seattle coach Mike Holmgren in the visitors locker room afterward. I’ll never forget what he said about Emmitt’s record: “The Cowboys got what they wanted and we got what we wanted.”

Fitting. Poignant. What Jerry wants, the “other things,” don’t necessarily have anything to do with winning football games.

Peace,
Allan

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