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A To Z

I got tagged again by one James Lawrence Gardner. So, here we go: my life from A to Z.

A. Attached or Single? Attached Attached

B. Best Friend? Carrie-Anne Stanglin, 19 years BestFriend

C. Cake or Pie? Pie, banana cream or coconut

D. Day of Choice? Sunday, the day Jesus came out of the tomb and the day his followers come together to celebrate

E. Essential Item? The 30-seconds forward button on the DVR remote, next to air-conditioning, the second greatest invention in the history of mankind

F. Flavor of Ice-Cream? Blue Bell Cookies and Cream IceCream

G. Gummy Bears or Worms? Neither. I think it’s a texture thing. Hometown

H. Hometown? Dallas, Texas

I. Indulgences? Whoppers and Lay’s Kettle Cooked Jalapeno Chips, my only vices Indulgence

J. January or July? July Kids

K. Kids? Whitney, 15; Valerie, 11; Carley, 8

L. Last Movie I Saw In A Theater? Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull IndyJones

M. Middle Name? Wayne

N. Number of Siblings? Two sisters, Rhonda and Sharon; one brother, Keith

O. Oranges or Apples? Oranges

P. Phobia or Fear? Singing “One Day More” in our VBS musical

Q. Quote? Prayer does not prepare us for greater works; prayer IS the greater work ~ E. M. Bounds Quote

R. Reason to Smile? Almost every interaction with my kids ReasonToSmile

S. Season? Football FavoriteSeason

T. Tag Four More? David Byrnes, Jennifer Green, Jill W, Jason Skelton

U. Unknown Fact About Me? My football number in Junior High was “42.” I requested “41” to be like Charlie Waters, but they didn’t have it. So I wound up with “42” CharlieWaters

V. Vegetarian or Oppressor of Animals? Oppressor

W. Worst Habit? All of my time management issues

X. X-Rays or Ultra-Sounds? I’m not sure what that means; X-rays, I guess

Y. Your Favorite Food? Buffalo Chicken Strips at Cheddar’s

Z. Zodiac? Scorpio

One Church, One Assembly

We announced to the Legacy congregation yesterday our intentions to go from two Sunday morning assemblies to one single weekly assembly once we move into the new worship center in late July / early August. For the Pipeline-Legacy Church of Christ, it’ll be the first time in over 18 years that the entire church family will come together on Sunday mornings to worship God and encourage each other.

It’ll be the first time:

that the whole church family will regularly worship together in the same room at the same time.
the whole church participates in the baptisms
the whole church is introduced to new members
the whole church participates in baby blessings / dedications
the whole church participates in special events such as Senior Sunday and missionary send-offs

I’m excited to be able to regularly participate in a thousand-member choir, joining with so many brothers and sisters in raising our voices and our hearts to God in song. I’m looking forward to the energy and the excitement and the enthusiasm of the larger crowd. I’m glad for the lowered utility costs, the uniform start times, and the increased flexibility in planning special events.

But mostly, I’m looking forward to an abundance of opportunities to sacrifice and share and learn from one another.

Right now, we are two different churches. To ignore that fact is to ignore the truth. Our 8:30 assembly is much different in style and dynamic and approach than our 10:45 service. We sing the same songs and do things in the same order for each service. But they’re different. Very different. Sometimes the clock will determine that we leave out a song or two during first service. Different people will pray differently, read Scripture differently, approach communion differently, and even react to the sermon differently. Not only that but, especially since we meet in 37 homes now on Sunday nights in Legacy Small Groups Church, there are huge groups of people who don’t ever meet or converse or interact in any way with their own brothers and sisters who attend the other assembly. We never see each other. As a result of all those things, we really are two different churches.

The first-service people could learn a whole lot by spending more time with the second-service people.

And the second-service people could learn a whole lot by spending more time with the first-service people.

If we were to stay with two separate assemblies, we’d each be able to stay completely comfortable. No change. No sacrifice. No bending. No thinking about others.

Now we’ll all, every one of us, have to make some changes and have to sacrifice a little to make this happen. Some of us, as was mentioned yesterday, will have to wake up a half hour earlier. Some of us will have to get used to not being the very first ones in line at Luby’s. The good news is we all will have to put the needs of others ahead of our own. We’ll each have to consider others better than ourselves. We’ll have to share a pew. We’ll have to get re-acquainted. It’s a win-win situation for growing spiritually with each other as a family.

And when our Lord blesses us with more baptisms and more families and more people and we’re forced to move back to two services, it’ll be that much more wonderful. Whether it’s in six-months or six-years, we’ll do so with an increased unity and a renewed sense of community and family within our body of believers at Legacy. And we’ll look back fondly on whatever period of time we met in one single assembly, glad for the experiences, happy for the memories, and more selfless and sacrificial servants because of it.

Here are the very latest pictures of the inside of the worship center. As always, click on the pic to get the full size.

LookingLeftFromTheBack  LookingCenterFromTheBack  LookingRightFromTheBack

LookingLeftFromFront  LookingCenterFromFront  LookingRightFromFront

ScrapingPillows   ScrapingCeilings  

The Legacy Quilters met for the first official time this morning in their area of the brand new Youth & Benevolence Center. When Kent wasn’t harassing them about no-parking lanes and I wasn’t bugging them to pose for pictures, they actually got a lot of work done today.

QuiltingLadiesHardAtWork   QuiltingTeam

Peace,

Allan

The Tie That Binds

Neckties“Indeed, we are a vanishing breed.”

Brian Williams winked or smirked or just smiled knowingly toward the camera. He did something, I can’t remember exactly what, as he said those words during last night’s NBC Nightly News.

He had just finished a little news story about the rapidly vanishing necktie.

According to NBC—and I can’t find any statistics about this anywhere, not even on NBC’s website—nobody’s wearing neckties anymore. Williams reported that, according to the latest survey or poll or trade data, only six-percent of men wear a tie to work every day. Six-percent. The number hasn’t been that low in over 70-years (I’m not sure how they know that).

This new information comes on the heels of the necktie trade commission, or something like that, officially dissolving yesterday. Nobody’s wearing ties. So, nobody’s buying ties.

And the news only confirms what you and I were already noticing. We knew this already. Nobody wears ties anymore. And that’s fine. Who cares?

But here’s what’s weird: what was once, not that long ago, the absolute standard for professionals in every field from lawyers and doctors and bankers to TV salesmen and grocery store managers and teachers has now, not only become outdated, which I can live with, but an actual source of contempt for many. Lots and lots of people actually criticize those who wear ties simply because they’re wearing a tie. Goofy.

I still wear a tie. Sunday mornings. Weddings. Funerals. Graduations. Nice banquets. I still wear a tie. In fact, I can’t imagine not wearing a tie to those and many more occasions.

Indeed, we are a vanishing breed.

Peace,

Allan

The Gospel AND Our Lives

“We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the Gospel of God but our lives as well, because you had become so dear to us.” ~1 Thessalonians 1:8

We spent a few moments yesterday in our monthly meeting of the Waco Alliance continuing a weeks-long discussion of how, as preachers, we should strive to be transparent to our congregations. It’s a position I’ve taken since I entered the ministry.

No holding back. Hiding nothing. Sharing with my church family all my best and worst. My greatest moments and my most awful. My great faith and my serious doubts. The things I know and the things about which I know nothing. What you see is what you get. Warts and all.

When friends of mine who were on the preacher search committee here or any one of our elders have mentioned to me that’s one of the reasons they hired me—“You’re so open!”— I always counter with, “And it’ll wind up being one of the reasons you fire me.”

Paul’s words to the congregation in Thessalonica reveal his love for the brothers and sisters. Yes, he shared the Gospel of Salvation with them. But he had grown to love them so much he shared with them his very life. No holding back. He gave them everything he had. All of it.

Yes, we get disappointed with our churches. Sometimes the only appropriate response to the things our people do and say is, “What a knucklehead!”

But, like family, he’s my knucklehead. And I love them and I defend them and I protect them with everything I have. Like with my little sisters. I can tease them and get frustrated with them at times. But don’t you dare come in here talking bad about them or treating them improperly.

Paul’s words in this short verse reveal a lot about him. He was commited to that congregation and to those families. He didn’t preach to them because they had a nice building or he enjoyed the town or the pay was right. He wasn’t looking elsewhere. He loved them. They were his family. And he shared with them his very life.

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I’ve added a new link to the Resource page of this blog. It’s part of the one year anniversary celebration of The Kingdom, The Kids, & The Cowboys. (Next year there’s going to be a huge mattress sale at one of the shops on Davis.) This link gets you to the page on the Legacy Church website that stores the streaming audio from our ten latest sermons. The Habakkuk series is still all there. And both of the first installments from the current Servant Songs series are there. You might also notice a couple of new links to the right hand side of this blog’s home page that take you to the blogs of Jim Martin at Crestview in Waco, Terry Rush up at Memorial in Tulsa, and William Willimon.

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Terry Rush’s post from yesterday’s Morning Rush is about the progression of praise during their corporate worship at Memorial. He writes about their congregation learning to really praise God. When they assemble now on Sundays, according to Terry, they “robustly cut loose and get lost in his wonder. We do stand in awe! We do mean it when we say ‘Thank You, Lord!'”

Terry writes, “we have shifted from worshiping and wondering who is upset with ‘over that move’ to wondering if God is loving our gifts of vocal / mindful worship of him.”

He closes his post with this:

“We enter his presence…really. Was it not being done before? I can’t answer that for anyone but myself. For me? It wasn’t being done. I was too focused on who did or didn’t like what was sung, prayed, or preached. I was too interrupted by singing a song and hearing comments regarding observing this note and that chorus. It seems to me the more the church learns to voice the praises of God, whether through song or testimony, the more God unleashes his grand grace upon our gatherings.”

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JerryWayneI was listening to Jerry Wayne and Terrell Owens announce the receiver’s new four-year contract during a 35-minute press conference driving home from Waco yesterday afternoon. Toward the end of the session, a reporter asked Owens about new Cowboys cornerback Adam “Pacman” Jones. Owens said Jones needs to turn his life around, he knows he needs to turn his life around, he understands he needs to turn his life around, and he WILL turn his life around because he’s being cared for and mentored by………..

And I just assumed Terrell was going to say Calvin Hill.

If not Calvin Hill, maybe somebody else on the Cowboys staff who helps troubled players. Maybe the team chaplain. Maybe even Drew Pearson or Everson Walls.

No.

Terrell Owens is certain that Pacman Jones is going to be fine because he’s being cared for and mentored by Deion Sanders. DeionMug

And as far as I could tell from listening to the live audio, nobody in that crowded room of team officials and reporters gasped or recoiled in shock and horror or fell down laughing.

Peace,

Allan

Self Evaluation

Today’s the day. The one-year anniversary of my first Sunday as Legacy’s full-time preacher. Some have told me this means the honeymoon’s officially over. So I took a few moments this past Sunday to renew my vows to our church family: that I understand it is a tremendous honor and privilege to be their preacher; that I am eternally grateful for their faith and trust in me; that I hold that faith and trust sacred; that I’m going to live my life in a way that honors them and our God; and that, while there will be times I disappoint them, it will never, ever be from a lack of trying as hard as I can and doing everything I can to serve them and faithfully preach the Word of God.

A couple of months ago at our elders / ministers retreat in Glen Rose, we were each given a five-sheet self evaluation form. It was a wonderful tool designed to help each of us better see the areas of our ministry and our calling in which we’re excelling and the areas that need some attention.

I’ll share with you today my number one strength (according to me) and a couple of my biggest weaknesses (among many) in an effort to open up and to better hold myself accountable.

My number one weakness, I think, is in my time management. I stink. I found myself checking boxes on the evaluation form that read “the way this person (me) seems to manage time has a negative effect on his ministry” and “this person MOSTLY fulfills his responsibilities.”

It still takes me too long to write a sermon. It still takes me too long to write bulletin articles and emails and proposals and blog posts. I still find myself being bogged down in long administration conversations and in making administration decisions. I don’t think I’m neglecting the spiritual side of my job as Legacy’s preacher. I’m good, in fact I thrive, on meeting with people who need spiritual direction, on praying with people who’ve lost hope, on studying with people who are looking for God. I’m not neglecting those things. I’m also maintaining my own spiritual life much better in the past six months than I was able to in my first six months. That’s not a problem anymore. It’s just that I’m ALSO doing way too many other things.

I’m learning how to say “no.” I said “no” twice yesterday.

The other thing I absolutely have to work on is my tendency to not delegate anything, to try to do it all myself. I checked a box that said “typically leaves other staff out of his plans.” I always think my motives are good. I don’t want to ask somebody else to do what I can do. Or should do.

Or is it because, selfishly,  I don’t want to give up any authority or power? Arrogantly, I think I can do the job better than anybody I could possibly ask? That, honestly, may be part of it, too.

I think I’m getting better at that. The ladies in the office, I think, would say I’m asking for more help in the past couple of months. But I could do much, much better.

I also have a real problem with allowing the few negative things that are done or said about me or to me outweigh the countless positives. But isn’t that just human nature? I’m not counting that as a negative. Everybody does that.

Of the 16 categories on the evaluation form, the only one I graded myself at the highest level was in Vision & Mission Clarity. Others may see this differently. I may be totally delusional on this. But I checked the top box that read “This person (me) sees vision clearly and is totally focused on the Legacy mission.”

The character of Christ formed in us. Us being transformed into the image of Jesus. All the things I wrote about yesterday that constitute true church growth. Brothers and sisters living lives of sacrifice and service. Applying the Word. Connecting as a Family. Evangelizing our Community. My aim in preaching and teaching goes right to the very core of those things. I believe my emphasis on Small Groups Church facilitates and accomplishes those things. I see growth here. And I see tremendous potential.

Today at our monthly meeting of the Waco Alliance we’re scheduled to discuss, among other topics, the things about me that make me hard to work with. I hope the nine other guys bring as much to talk about as I am.

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HawksLogoThe high school right across the street from Legacy, Birdville High, is State-Bound for the first time in school history, in any sport, ever. The Hawks baseball team is heading down to Austin for the Final Four as Class 4-A Region I Champs! They’ll take on Waxahachie’s Indians tomorrow night and then, should they win, play for the first-ever Birdville State MattCoxChampionship on Thursday.

Most of our youth group at Legacy attends Birdville. And most of our church family’s been following the team. We’ve updated our electronic billboard out on Mid-Cities Boulevard this week with a couple of congratulatory messages and good luck wishes.

Class4ARegionIChamps!

Go Hawks!

Allan

Church Growth

Tomorrow, June 3, marks the one-year anniversary of the date Carrie-Anne and the girls and I began our full-time preaching ministry here at Legacy. We knew most of the people here off-and-on for ten months before we actually began. So in some ways we’ve been here much longer than a year. But in so many other ways, it seems like we just got here.

On that first official Sunday one year ago, I talked to the church family about church growth. I talked about how most people judge church growth according to the ABCs: attendance, buildings, and contribution. But that’s not church growth. Church growth is the formation of Christ Jesus in us. It’s the character of Jesus transforming us into his image. 

Having said that, I did mention how, by June 3, 2008 we’d have more people, we’d have a bigger budget and larger contribution, and we’d be assembled in a brand new worship center.

Two out of three ain’t bad.

In the past 12 months at Legacy, 105 baptized believers have been added to the Body at Legacy, 146 if you count all the kids! We have 1,589 members now of our church family. Over the past year our Sunday morning attendance has averaged 930, an increase of 52 over the previous year’s average. As for Sunday nights, we’re averaging 478 over the past year, up 149 from the year before. And if you look at only the past five months, beginning in January with the start of Small Groups Church, we’re averaging 603, an increase of 274 from the year before.

Money-wise, our 2008 budget is about a quarter of a million dollars bigger than our 2007 budget. And in the past year our weekly contribution is more than $5,000 above the year before. The money keeps pouring in from Missions Sunday, past $130,000 now and counting. And Legacy has contributed over $16,000 total in disaster aid to send to Myanmar and China.

And I’ll be surprised if we’re not in the new worship center by the end of July.

But, again, none of that is church growth.

It’s not.

Those are all God’s blessings, to be sure. But church growth is how we use those blessings, how we live with and work with those blessings.

Church growth is when we minister to each other and serve and give ourselves selflessly and sacrificially to others. It’s when we consider others better than ourselves. It’s what’s happening in 36—soon to be 38—of our homes on Sunday nights. Church growth is measured in increased cooperation. Increased unity. Increased intergenerational interaction. It’s an increased desire to confess to one another, pray for one another, and encourage everybody. Church growth is realizing it’s not about me, it’s about you. It’s not about us, it’s about the people in our community who don’t live in a saving relationship with Christ Jesus.

And Legacy is growing in those ways. Being transformed into the gentle, selfless, sacrificing, and giving image of our Lord isn’t easy. It’s a difficult and painful process as we throw off the things that burden us and live into his eternal plans and purposes for our lives.

But it’s happening here at Legacy.

May we faithfully continue to submit to our God and serve one another and our communities with the love and grace of Christ.

Peace,

Allan

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